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Fighting-Gravity wrote:
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Baby_Huey wrote:
I don't have any kids yet but hope to some day. I'm still told I'm a kid being 24.
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I wouldn't call you a kid: I was married with one kid by the time I was 24! Daniel
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Heck at 30 i could barely feed my self! At 43 im way past ramen but still act like i'm a kid.
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I get told I'm a kid because the office I'm editor at, all the ladies I work with are old enough to be my mother or grandmother, some have grandkids older then me. But I think I will always be a kid at heart, I enjoy having time to do fun thinks like TKD. I use to over work at my first reporter job and that was how I signed up TKD because I was stressing out and with my high weight I was heading to a heart attack by 25.
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| POSTED BY: season on 07/28/2008 22:21:55 |
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Tae kwon do is not just an activity, it is a way of life. I don't believe that you can burn out on a way of life. My son has ADHD so the busier the better because if he is bored, he gets into trouble.
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Proud Parent
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season wrote:
Tae kwon do is not just an activity, it is a way of life. I don't believe that you can burn out on a way of life. My son has ADHD so the busier the better because if he is bored, he gets into trouble.
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I see your point season, but the thing is that so many things kids get involved with are suppose to be a way of life and it can cause kids to become bored with them and lose interest. I loved scouts when I was first learning everything but by the time I earned my arrow of light, I was bored with it because I had been doing it for so long and wanted to do different things. As an adult, I have more paientce and really focus on what I'm doing. I appreciate what I'm doing more now then I did as a kid. I use to think I knew everything so if I didn't agree with what was said I just threw it to the side. Now I think about it more and accpect other ideas.
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| POSTED BY: kalynn on 08/08/2008 19:07:50 |
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This is a great topic. I have 3 sons and like to let them try just about any sport or activity that they are interested in. I try to guide them toward what I think suits them best. But in the end, if they don't have a real love or passion for it, I let them drop it. Some things have lasted longer than others, taekwondo and scouting have remained through the years while ice skating, lacrosse, swimming, basketball, baseball, football, piano lessons, skate boarding and a host of others have come and gone in their own time.
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| POSTED BY: season on 08/13/2008 21:22:16 |
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My mother used to get so frustrated at me for wanting to try new things. Because of that, I didn't get to do much as a child. That's probably why I just started training this year at TKD. Way to go for encouraging your kids. You never what you can do until you try.
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My parents would let us do almost anything but once we signed up we had to complete the year or season.
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We have the same finish the season rule with our three girls, but how do you do that with TKD? It's not a year or season sort of thing. And I have to admit when it's a family business and your trying to teach your teenagers about the responsibilities of a family business it can get a bit stressful to say the least. But that is part of the growing pains of being a parent. Your human and don't always do things exactly the way you would like for them to have happened. That's where that "hind sight is 20/20" saying probably came from. I can't find that "How to be a parent and instructor" part in any of the Instructor Manuals I've seen. Even with a degree in Social Work it's sometimes hard to remember as a parent to "always take the time to listen to them". Not just the words, because sometimes they'll say what they think you want to hear, but their actions too. You can hear them, if YOU take the time away from your busy schedule to actually pay attention.
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"Start by doing what is necessary, then do what is possible and suddenly you will be doing what you thought was impossible"
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| POSTED BY: tkdguy on 09/19/2008 22:31:54 |
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There are so many good things out there for kids to sign up for. I think sometimes as a parent we want so much for our kids that we allow them too much. So far so good but, I can definetly see that could be a problem in our future.
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